Thursday, 25 August 2011

I have been very hard studying it

With one week to middle and primary school begins and reporters from the Beijing municipal middle and primary school consultant center to realize, with the approach of the date back to school, the kid's various problems appeared to anxiety. This year in addition to hurry to catch the homework, also appeared many anxious to "assault tourism" students.
"I have been very hard studying it, now, just a summer vacation with a week, must take me to go abroad to play." First YingYing students to the psychological consultation center still insist on your request. Mom and dad said to her quote, this summer the four remedial class, now go school begins, YingYing don't want to go out to travel, are threatening to leave the parents, must accompany go together and otherwise is not good class next semester.
Consulting, director of the center WenFang said, like this recent requirements "assault tourism" child has to a few dozen, basic it is a junior high school student. All is summer vacation on the remedial class, feel lost. Hold on to the holiday's tail, fill a good holiday visit. Many children themselves cannot tell will go, anyway, is to go abroad to even go abroad.
WenFang analysis, the child demanded it, is mainly psychological unbalance, think this time for play didn't play into. In addition, also fear that the students have no face chat heel, people talk about how happy to play, only full of bitterness. The experts advise parents to the child, and use that difficult "a delaying tactic". Let him child to understand, travel need to prepare for the long time, need how many money, let them understand not started to go. Can with children agreed, the next vacation or junior high school graduation to take him to the play, let the child not think the "lift-off" idea.......
In addition to the assault, and assault for tourism gifts. Many parents to consultation center reflect, recently children spend too recklessly, bought a lot of "no" things. Consultants after understanding found that children buys is small gift, ready to start to students. Some boy bought a lot of game magazine, ready to start the heel students share. What is more, also work overtime game strategy, plan the back heel together to students. A junior high school girls mother "complaints" said, the child to buy gift has spent more than one thousand dollars, the mother feels this is a kind of waste.
Consultants analysis, many parents of children watch holiday strictly, and even "confiscated of the child" mobile phone, which make them feel very isolated, so near the displays a strong association desire. Give students a small gift is not may not, but the parents should be pay attention to actively guide. Let your children understand that only by the gift can't have a friend, the sentiment is not his money, want to rely on friends sincerely for.

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